If you ever thought of having suffered a relational trauma, particularly in your childhood, entertaining the thought of having been a victim of abuse, or ignorant behaviour, would have come along with it. While feeling like a victim is a natural response to trauma even during the first stages of one's realisation that we have suffered trauma,...
Read MoreChildren always blame themselves for environmental failures, for failing to complete secure attachment with their primary carers, even when it is completely irrational. “I deserve this” becomes the default position for children, and this stays with them at an unconscious level into adulthood. When a very young child starts off feeling profoundly...
Read MoreWhen thinking of traumatic experiences we are often drawn to images of tragic car accidents, brutal war killings, or major natural disasters, but while these are undoubtedly traumatizing events, and induce shock traumas, trauma responses can be induced with as little as a child being lost in a supermarket. This is why, in trauma-specialist Dr....
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